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Q&A On Direct Cremation

If you are in the process of planning a direct cremation service in Lake Helen, FL for a loved one, or for yourself in advance, there are certain questions you might have. You certainly aren’t alone. Many people who go through the planning process have the same questions. Getting answers can help you make the best decisions for yourself and your family. Here are some of the answers, along with the questions, to help you get started down whatever path is right for you.

Is Direct Cremation The Most Cost-Effective Route?

Yes. Cremation is the least expensive disposition method and of the types under the cremation umbrella, direct cremation is the most cost-effective and has the lowest bottom line. Much of this is because there are very few products and services that go into the process, which cuts back on the cost quite a bit.

How Long Does Cremation Take?

Once the cremation process begins, it takes only a few hours for the body to be turned into ash-like remains. The intense heat (not flames) reduces the body into its basic elements. The height and weight of the person can change how long it takes, but generally, it’s only a few hours.

What Do People Wear For Cremation?

Cremation can be done with people wearing a variety of things. They can be placed into a cremation casket with nothing on, with a cremation gown on, with an outfit of their family’s choosing, or something brand new the family has purchased. As long as there aren’t certain elements on the clothes (like metal or plastic), it can be worn for the process.

Can Family Members Watch Cremation?

Often, yes, but that all depends on the cremation provider you choose. To avoid confusion, ask upfront before you commit to a cremation with a certain provider and find out later the family cannot view the cremation, but really wants to.

What Are Cremated Remains Like?

Remains are ground down after the cremation process and look much like ashes from a fireplace. They are coarse, like sand, and range in color from white to gray. They generally weigh anywhere from 4-8 pounds, depending on the person’s height and weight.

What Cremation Container Does The Provider Use?

The provider will use whatever urn you choose for your loved one’s remains, if you’d like. Otherwise, they will provide you with a simple container, like a box, for the remains.

If you have more questions about cremation services in Lake Helen, FL, that’s perfectly understandable. Contact the professionals at Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory by calling (386) 775-2101. Don’t hesitate in asking us anything and everything you want to know. You can also visit with us in person at 1233 Saxon Blvd, Orange City, FL. We’d be happy to take you on a tour of our facility and talk through any other details you want to clear up. We want you to get the cremation you need for your loved one or for yourself as part of final plans. We’re here to help you through the planning process and beyond.

Questions To Ask Before Committing To A Cremation Service Provider

If you have decided that you want cremation services in Daytona Beach, FL for your own final disposition method, that’s a huge first step to make in planning your services in advance. However, next, you will want to find a cremation service provider so you can get your plans written down and ready for your family in the future. Before you commit to a certain provider, ask the following questions to ensure they are the right provider for your needs.

What Services Do You Have?

Before you assume the cremation provider has the services you want, ask! You don’t want to promise your cremation to them and then find out they don’t do something you really want. That’s a pain for you to have to switch to a new provider. Find out what services they have and get general price lists and packages so you can forego this headache later.

Can My Family Witness The Cremation?

If you know your family will want to see the cremation take place, or you think they might, you will want to see if that is an option. If it’s an option you want to at least have available to them, make sure the provider has it as a choice. If you don’t need that option, it doesn’t matter, and you don’t need to ask.

How Are The Deceased Handled?

You want a cremation provider that takes the utmost care with the individuals who have passed away. They should talk about how they transport people, how they are cared for before the cremation takes place, how they are treated during cremation, and how the remains are collected and stored after. You want to know all of those details to ensure they have the processes in order to take the kind of care of you that you deserve and want.

If I Pay Now, Do Prices Increase Later?

Most cremation providers will allow you to pay for your cremation in advance by utilizing today’s prices. They will not charge your family more later if the prices rise in the future. But it is a good question to ask to ensure that is the case. If you want your family free of burdens, you don’t want a provider that is going to charge them fees to make up the difference in the future.

If you are ready to move forward with cremation services in Daytona Beach, FL, the professionals at Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory are here to answer these and any other questions you have for us. We understand your plans are important to your future and to your family. Visit us in person at 1233 Saxon Blvd, Orange City, FL 32763 and we can help you get things in order. You can also call first, ask questions, and get some ideas to talk over with your family before you move forward. You can reach us at (386) 775-2101 and we’ll help you in any way we can.

Cremation Services Are The Right Choice If…

If you are going back and forth as to what final services you should plan for your loved one, it can definitely be a hard decision to make. Keep in mind that both main final disposition methods are perfectly respectful and honorable. If you choose cremation Services in Deland, FL, you can feel good about the choice you have made on behalf of your loved one if the following items are true.

Your Family Agrees To It

If you aren’t sure what your loved one wanted, but your family is completely agreeable towards cremation, it’s the right choice for you. You want to make sure your family is okay with the option you move forward with and cremation will feel like the better choice if everyone agrees to it.

It’s What You Can Afford

You don’t want your loved one’s final services to be about costs, but those definitely have to play a role in what you decide. Traditional burials are going to be more expensive so if cremation is what you can afford, it’s the right choice. There’s nothing wrong with choosing this disposition because of costs, either. It’s perfectly honorable and a good way to show your loved one the respect and dignity they deserve.

The Services Are Better Served By Cremation

If you want to have a memorial a month from now or you would like to have a celebration of life in a park for your loved one, cremation makes those goals easier to reach. There are certain services that simply go better with cremation and if you decide on services of those natures, cremation is the best option. Grief is hard to take on alone and you don’t need to go at it alone.

You Know Your Loved One Was Okay With It

Whether they indicated that they wanted cremation for sure or not, if you at least knew that your loved one was okay with the idea of cremation, that can make it the right option for your family. It’s hard to guess what someone wanted if they never really said, but if your loved one attended the cremations of friends and mentioned that the services were nice and they never directly opposed it, you can feel more comfortable choosing it for them.

When you are ready to work on cremation Services in Deland, FL for a loved one, the professionals at Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory are here for you. We won’t make any decisions for you, but we can lay out the options so you can make decisions based on what you feel is best for your family. Give us a call at (386) 775-2101 and we’ll give you the information you need to move forward. You can also set up a time to speak with our funeral director in person. You can tour our facilities as well at 1233 Saxon Blvd Orange City, FL 32763. We want to show you our compassion and support as you go through some of the harder times you will face. Visit our website for more information about us at Baldaufffuneralhome.com.

Should You Attend Cremation Services?

There are times when someone in your life passes away, there are cremation services in Lake Helen, FL and you know that you should and/or want to go. There are other times when the waters might be muddier. If you are on the fence and you’re trying to decide if you should attend the services or not, let these situations help you in your decision.

You Simply Want To

Whether you were close to the person or not, use this as your first guide. If you just really want to attend, you should. You might want to be there for someone else or you might need closure yourself. Whatever the reason, if you feel the desire to attend, you should.

Do you Want To Support Someone?

Attending cremation services isn’t always about honoring someone who has passed on. Sometimes, you might want to be there because you know someone affected by the death. You might want to support a friend or co-worker who has lost someone they love, for example. Attending the services is a great way to show you are there for someone.

You Have Been Directly Invited

You can see an obituary online or in the paper and if the services are open to the public, you’re invited. However, if someone in the person’s immediate family directly reaches out to you and invites you to the service, it’s nice to go if at all possible.

You Have A Memory To Share

If you have something you want to share about the person who passed on and their cremation services are going to have a time of sharing, it’s nice for you to go to share that memory. You might have something in mind that no one else has heard about their loved one before. The family appreciates hearing new and different things to remind them that person touched a lot of people in their life.

You Wouldn’t Make Waves

If you feel you would disrupt the services for any reason, you might need to think about it in more detail. If you’re an ex-spouse, for example, and things are contentious among the family towards you, it could be hard to attend. If you have worked things out with anyone in attendance and you know your presence wouldn’t bother anyone, you should definitely attend to get closure yourself.

When you are trying to decide whether or not to attend cremation services in Lake Helen, FL, talk to the professionals at Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory to get advice. You can tell us more about your situation and we can offer advice based on what we have seen people do in the past. Call us at (386) 775-2101 and we’ll support you with compassion no matter what situation you might be in revolving around a person’s death. You can also visit us in person if you’d like. We’re located at 1233 Saxon Blvd, Orange City, FL 32763 and we’re here for families who need to plan final services and for those surrounding them.

Ideas for After the Cremation Service

You may already know that cremation services in Daytona Beach, FL offer a lot of advantages over a traditional burial. You get the services you need at a budget-friendly price and there are flexible options for services and timelines after that. You even get to choose what happens to the ashes once the person is cremated. Once you’ve made other decisions and you have to go about figuring out what to do once the cremation services are over, it’s nice to look over the options to see what suits you or your family best. Here are a few options to consider:

Scattering

Probably the most popular way to honor someone after the cremation is to scatter their ashes somewhere special. You can scatter them over land, into the air, over water, on private property, or anywhere else. If you’ve never scattered ashes before, you might have a particular picture in mind, but there are actually many different ways to scatter ashes.

Casting means just tossing the ashes into the wind. You will want to check the wind direction so you don’t end up throwing anything into anyone’s face, which can be very unpleasant. You can cast alone or have others join you in the efforts.

Water scattering is when you scatter the ashes into a body of water. You may need local authority permission for this, and you will also want a biodegradable urn that won’t hurt the natural elements. You could also get an urn that sinks into the body of water and can deteriorate from there. Support from friends and family may not help relieve the amount of sadness and grief you feel.

Raking means pouring the ashes over loose soil, like in a garden or under a tree, and raking them into the earth. There might be local ordinances for this in certain locations so check into the rules before you perform this method in the wrong place.

Ringing ceremonies are more ritualistic, and you would form a ring with the ashes around a tree, a home, a property, or anywhere else.

And trenching is like burying, but with less depth. You dig a small hole for the ashes and cover them. You could do this in the family yard, or even near the ocean where the ashes could be taken out into the sea by the tide later.

These are just a few of the scattering options that you might consider if that’s the direction you want to take. When you need help with the process or deciding between options, local cremation service providers in Daytona Beach, FL can help you with everything you need. Contact the specialists at Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory for answers to any questions you have. We’re located at 1233 Saxon Blvd, Orange City, FL 32763 and we’re compassionate individuals who truly want to help. You can call us with questions if you want to start that way at (386) 775-2101. And we can set you up with a consultation to figure out more of the details when you’re ready. We want to help you honor your loved one however you see fit.