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Dividing Possessions After Funeral Home Services

When someone in your family passes on and you find yourself in charge of their final services, you will want to work closely with the professionals at funeral homes in Daytona Beach, FL to make sure your family gets what they need and to get your loved one into caring hands. The grieving process is just that, a process. And part of your duties, after the final services are complete, are likely going to include dividing up your loved one’s possessions. That’s a very hard task to take on. Here are a few tips to help you through it.

-Take Your Time

Unless there is an urgent reason to clear out their house, apartment, or living space, take things slow. Don’t rush into the process if you aren’t ready. If you have to get their things out of a nursing home facility, for example, pack everything up and move it to storage until you have the time, and the emotional ability, to go through things at a slower pace. There’s no race and you don’t want to make decisions you’ll regret later.

-Think Hard Before Donating

Donating your loved one’s items is a wonderful thing to do. You can ensure that people who need certain items have access to them. It’s a nice way to honor your loved one, even. But you want to make sure you, and others in your family, are sure that they don’t want certain things before you donate them. You don’t want to donate anything with a large amount of sentimental value, for example. If you aren’t attached to a certain item, someone else in your family might be so it’s best to check around and let everyone have their choices before you make donations.

-Make Copies Of Old Pictures

One of the most precious possessions many people have is pictures. IF your loved one has photos that are so old there are no negatives for them, lots of people might want them. With today’s technology on your side, you can have copies made or you can scan them into a computer and give everyone a thumb drive with those copies on it. You will be able to preserve the memories and give everyone who wants them a part of your loved one’s history in picture form.

There are plenty of other tips you might want to keep in mind when you are breaking apart your loved one’s possessions and trying to distribute them. While funeral homes in Daytona Beach, FL can’t make any decisions for you, we are certainly here to give you advice and suggestions and we will also support you through the process, even after the final services are complete and behind you. Contact Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory when you need final services for a family member and you can ensure that they are in good hands. You can also contact us for grief resources later and we also have plenty of contacts to help you with donations and other such things.

Giving Your Loved One A Burial At Sea

Living in Orlando gives you easy access to the ocean. When a family member who loved the water passes on, you might feel good about having cremation services in Lake Helen, FL for them so you can then scatter their ashes in the ocean. If you have never followed through with this process before, there are some things you will need to know.

Contact The Coast Guard

If you aren’t sure about the laws and regulations, you can always contact the coast guard and ask. But you need to know that it is not allowed to scatter your loved one from the beach or any location where they might possibly come into contact with other people. You can scatter them in the ocean, but you need to do so from a boat a certain length away from the shore. You can charter a boat, rent one, use one you have, borrow one, and so on. The coast guard can give you the details on any other rules you need to know.

Stock The Boat

Once you have a boat ready and a day is chosen, you will want to stock the boat with the necessary items. You might be just going for a quick trip out to scatter your loved one and back. But it’s still wise to have some items on hand. Pack whatever for everyone and perhaps a few snacks. You could take some motion sickness medication in case anyone is bothered by the rocking motion. And a general first aid kit is always a good idea.

Think Through The Ceremony

You don’t want to get out in the boat with the ashes and your close family and realize you have nothing else in mind. Think about the ceremony you want to have. Do you want everyone to share a memory? Is there a poem you would like to read or a song you would like to play? Is everyone going to scatter a little ash or is one person going to do the job alone while others watch? It’s important to form the ceremony in your mind so you can ensure that you get in everything you want to do when the time comes.

There are lots of other places you can lay your loved one to rest, but if you choose an ocean scattering, the professionals can help you get things set up and thought through. When you get cremation services in Lake Helen, FL from Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory, we are here for much more than just the cremation process itself. We can give you advice on scatterings, hold memorial services for you, offer advice and suggestions for anything along the way and much more. You can even come back to us in the future if you or a loved one needs grief resources of some kind. We’re here for whatever kind of support you need and we will always offer out compassion no matter what your circumstances might be including.

Spreading Funeral Home Plans Among Family

There’s no such thing as a good time to hold a final service for a loved one. It’s going to be hard no matter when death occurs. And you might find yourself in charge of working with funeral homes in Lake Helen, FL to get the final services lined up. Just because you are the point person, though, doesn’t mean you have to do all of the work. You are grieving and you have people in your life who are ready and willing to help. Here are a few ways you can spread the funeral home plans out among other family members.

Let Someone Take Over The Memorial Table/Video

When you arrange a final service, whether it’s a funeral or memorial service, you will often have a memorial table and perhaps also a video of music and pictures that play before or even during the service. This is an integral part of the service that will make things very special and personalized. But it takes time to put together and you might not have the time you want to put into the project. Let another family member take it on. You can give them any pictures you want to be included or any instructions you have and let them take it from there.

Allow Another To Plan The Reception

The reception is an important part of the day, but it often gets put off for plans that are more important. Just because it might not be the pivotal part of the day doesn’t mean you want to ignore it. But you might not have time for it, either. Another family member will have time and they would likely be honored to take the project on for the rest of the family. Again, if you have any ideas or thoughts about the reception, let them know. Otherwise, let them take that part of the day, organize it, and run with their own plans.

Have Someone Help With Side Issues

Just because you are planning a final service for a loved one doesn’t mean the rest of your life has stopped moving forward. You might need help clearing your plate so you have more time to dedicate to the final plans. Have a family member drive your kids to and from school and practices. Ask someone to mow your grass, run your errands, or do other little things around your house and life that will free you up for what you need to concentrate on right now.

If you have to plan final services for a loved one with funeral homes in Lake Helen, FL, the professionals at Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory are here to relieve you of as many of the burdens as possible. But you might also want help from your loved ones. Breaking up the responsibilities can really help you have the time you need to grieve and move forward while you are getting the plans you want for your loved one into place. It can also be a real honor for other family members to be included in that way.

Treating Cremation Services With Traditions

Even though cremation services in Daytona Beach, FL have been around for thousands of years, some people still feel like they are new, or non-traditional. If you are having cremation services for a loved one, or if you are planning cremation for yourself in advance, there are lots of traditional things you can do around the cremation to make your family feel good about the ceremony involved in the process. Here are a few ways to infuse traditions into cremation.

Go With A Full Cremation

While the cremation process is the same no matter what, the timing of it can be moved around a bit. Direct cremation happens soon after death without any services beforehand. If you want some traditions included, you could go with a full cremation, which means there would be a visitation and funeral service beforehand, followed by cremation later. This, in a way, is the best of both worlds. Family gets the traditional services they might feel they need and the individual gets cremated after. The family can move forward with a burial, scattering, or another final resting place option.

Have A Traditional Memorial

If you prefer to go with direct cremation because of costs or any other reason, there are still things you can do to put traditions into the experience. You could, for example, arrange a memorial service after the cremation that has lots of traditions included. Memorial services can be whatever you want them to be, which means they can even feel like a funeral if you want. They can follow the same course of action and have similar songs, a eulogy, readings, and so on. The only difference would be the absence of the casket, in this case.

Have A Burial

While cremation opens the options for final resting places, the traditional route would likely be burial in a cemetery. Cremation plots are much smaller than standard burial plots, but it gives family one location to gather when they want to think of that person, visit them, or see a memorial like a headstone for them. That burial might be the traditional part of the services you give to your family to make them feel good about the options chosen.

Cremation services in Daytona Beach, FL are becoming more and more the traditional route since they are used in half of the cases today. They are only rising in popularity and someday, it might feel like a burial and funeral is the non-traditional way to go. But if your family appreciates the ceremony involved with traditions, and you want to use some of them along with cremation, there are certainly ways to make that happen. Contact the professionals at Baldauff Family Funeral Home and Crematory with any questions you have about cremation or the various traditions you could use along with it to comfort your family. We are here to ensure that your loved one (or you if you are planning in advance) gets just the right services to honor good memories.

Having Services At The Funeral Home

Working with funeral homes in Daytona Beach, FL on final services for a loved one can take a lot of burdens from your shoulders. The funeral home professionals are there to help you make plans and then to implement the details you want to put into place. If you have a traditional service, you can do that at a church, or the funeral home, among a few other locations. With a cremation memorial service, your options are fully open and you can do that service almost anywhere. But there are still benefits to having the service at the funeral home. Here are some things you get when you decide to hold whatever service you want to have for your loved one at the funeral home.

1-Professional Help

When you have a memorial service in the park, that’s on you. If you decide to move the services to the church, the funeral home will help coordinate, but more of the details will be on you as well. If you have the service (whatever kind you want) at the funeral home, they will not only help you plan it but also implement it for you. If you want chairs in a certain arrangement, flowers placed just so and other things, the funeral home will take care of everything. You have the professionals helping with every aspect so you really don’t have to worry about nearly as much. You arrive with the rest of your family and enjoy the service.

2-Convenient Location

Funeral homes, in general, try to locate themselves conveniently so people have easy access to them. But they also are a convenient location because your loved one is already there. You don’t have to worry about moving them, either in their urn or casket, to another location. You can have the services there and not worry about any of that extra transportation.

3-One Stop Planning

You will plan the initial final services with the funeral home, no matter what method you go with. You can then take your plans elsewhere to continue the services, but you don’t have to. It can be easier for you to plan everything with the same people and in the same location. You only need one contact instead of many to get the services planned and carried out as you wish for your loved one.

There are lots of things that funeral homes in Daytona Beach, FL can do for you and your family as you plan final services for your loved one. Whether you decide to have final services at the funeral home or not, you will get support for every decision you make. The professionals want you to honor your loved one in whatever way see fit. If that’s by having a service at the funeral home, great, we’ll help with that. If that’s having a service in a church, a park, or a family home, we’ll support that as well. We’re here to help you through this hard process.